Stay Soft

✅ Why is it tough to stay soft?

1. We fear the past repeating, which could include being cheated, betrayed or even abused

2. We do not want to be considered as weak

3. We start believing it is better to hurt rather than being hurt

4. It becomes a means of self protection 

5. We do not want our vulnerability to be used against us

Softness doesn't mean the absence of assertiveness. It means the absence of aggression. 

Being soft doesn't mean playing the victim or having a lack of resilience. It means being kind and compassionate. 

✅ Why should we stay soft?

When we choose to respond from a lack of softness, we have allowed the people or situations that have hurt us to have an upper hand. They are able to have the power to change our true selves, just by staying in our mind as a memory. The memory should help us discern the difference between us and them. 

* We can hope they are influenced by our softness, and not us by their harshness.

✅ If you need help to make healthy choices and level up in your growth and abundance mindset, you can consult me for one-to-one sessions.